Nov 19 2008
Really? You Want More Headlines? Okay…
Here are a few…
Nurse loses licence over affair with patient –Man took his own life after suing CAMH
A nurse formerly employed at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health will lose her licence after she admitted to having sex with a patient while she worked there, a disciplinary panel ruled yesterday. The nurse admitted that “she sexually abused the patient by engaging in sexual intercourse … among other things” during the man’s in-patient and outpatient treatment, according to an agreed statement of facts presented at her disciplinary hearing. She was fired in 2007 when the affair came to light.
Here’s another case of bad police–remember, I am an ardent supporter of the police but will not ignore the bad apples who do exist within the force. Fortunately, the woman did finally get some justice, which might help in her long road to recovery:
The Toronto Police Services Board has been ordered to pay Marian Evans $215,000 – plus her legal costs – after she sued for an “outrageous and despicable sexual assault” committed by a former Toronto police officer nearly 30 years ago. The court also ordered John David Sproule to pay $25,000 in punitive damages. Sproule, a constable who fondled and tried to kiss Evans in 1979 after a traffic stop, refused to attend the trial.
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On Jan. 6, 1979, Evans, then 24, was driving home alone in Scarborough at 3:30 a.m. when Sproule pulled her over in a marked cruiser and found her licence had been suspended for nonpayment of a fine. He said she could go to prison for 14 years and that he would take her to 41 Division. Sproule left her waiting at the scene and returned a short time later in an unmarked car. He then parked her car in a lot, told her to get into his car and drove to a secluded area where he grabbed her breast and tried to kiss her. When Evans complained to police, Sproule was charged. At the time, he was 32 and had been on the force for five years. He pleaded guilty to indecent assault and was fined $1,000. Back in 1979, Sproule’s father headed the Toronto police morality squad. After the conviction, Sproule quit the force and moved to Northern Ontario. He defied a subpoena to attend the civil trial.
During a hearing in September, Evans, now 54, gave an emotional account of her ordeal and the years of embarrassment and shame that prevented her from confronting what had happened. “I’ve never been so scared in my life before or after,” Evans testified during the proceedings. Chapnik wrote Evans “was trapped for a time in a police cruiser in a parking lot in the middle of the night. The fact that she had committed an infraction made her particularly vulnerable to intimidation by the officer.” Before the attack, Evans was a person her sister Kathleen described as “talented, charming, witty, very beautiful and charismatic,” a person who “lit up the room.” Afterward, Evans testified that she became estranged from her otherwise tight-knit Scarborough family, and over the years has battled depression, low self-esteem, sleeplessness and nightmares about “faceless authority figures.” She continues to panic when she sees police cars, she told the court.
And here’s something from one of my favourite columnists re. the recent case in France, where a Muslim asshole (no, not all Muslims are assholes; this guy happens to be an asshole an Muslim, both of which are relevant here) broke up his wedding party to announce to everyone that he was leaving his new bride because he just found out she wasn’t a virgin (they were about to have sex while the party raged on, apparently). He tried to annul the marriage but the French legal system said, “Screw you, neanderthal. We are in the third millenium here…” Now before anyone accuses me of being ___ist, or ethnocentric, or anti-religion/culture, or anti-virginity, etc., I would have no problem with the story if the virginity rules applied to men as well. If you belong to a certain culture, religion or society that demands virginity before marriage, so be it. But when the rules are applied to only one sex, we’ve got a problem.
I would have opened a vein before submitting to such undignified scrutiny. Indeed, some brides do precisely that, cut themselves to draw a bead of blood, because the revolting custom endures in many societies, whether a requisite of culture or religion. So this is not, strictly speaking, about Muslims. Virginity remains mandatory in vastly different conservative societies. Chastity Promise clubs have gained growing popularity among “till-I-do” teenagers in the U.S.
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The case provoked wide outrage as an attack on male-female equality. One female government minister called the original tribunal ascent a “fatwa against the emancipation of women.” Technically, the tribunal had based its judgment on a fundamental component of France’s Civil Code: A marriage partner can demand an annulment if his or her spouse fails to fulfill an “essential” part of their agreement. That includes “lack of truthfulness.”
But few in France took much note of the legal niceties. They saw this for what it was: Denunciation of a woman for having sex outside marriage, discrimination based on anachronistic traditions, and imposition of religious values on secular law. A broader fury also coalesced around the case – the worry in France of creeping Islamic fundamentalism threatening the nation’s precious aversion to sanctified religiosity.
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On the matter of annulment for absence of chastity, the higher court got it right. “Virginity can in no case constitute an essential quality. It is not possible to obtain an annulment on such a discriminatory basis; this motive is an attack on male-female equality, the right to dispose of one’s own body, and human dignity. It would be contrary to public order to grant an annulment on the grounds of non-virginity.”